Is that it can help you to stay grateful.
Without the possibility of defeat, victory will have no meaning. Even success is not an independent variable in that it draws relevance from the existence of failure.
Pleasure and pain follows the same idea.
And they all make the narrative complete.
We suffer unnecessarily because we are too one-sided in our outlook….and it takes someone who sees the big picture to go through life without the stress that many people suffer from. A big picture thinker sees failure as a part of the success equation and goes through all of it in strides.
This is how to win.